ON THE JOB ACTIONS
Planning Technique
Plan how to influence in important interactions, meetings, phone calls, teleconferences, etc. using the 'Influencing Situation Plan'. Think about this as moving a person from their present position to a different position in a series of steps. Consider how far and how fast it is possible to move them. Accept it may be realistic to move someone from point 1 to point 3 but not to point 5.
Know your Audience
Read and/or watch 'The Power of Empathy' to understand how to relate to the people you are aiming to influence. Empathy has been proven to give you a real advantage in an influencing or competitive situation. It is also a demonstration of respect, necessary if anyone is to accept what you are saying.
Using Values
Read 'Making a Case with Values' to understand how to identify what are the motivating values for people and how you can use them to persuade.
Structure Your Ideas
Read 'Managing Information Effectively' and if working with a group read 'Managing Complex Information' and apply the techniques to assemble a logical, well-structured series of facts and ideas to make up your proposal.
Awareness
Become familiar with the different influence styles by reading 'Influencing Styles'. Build your self-awareness of how you influence by completing the 'Influencing Styles Questionnaire'.
Practise
Decide on the most appropriate styles for a particular situation. Look for opportunities to practise the styles that you find difficult. Identify how your verbal and non-verbal behaviour changes for each of the styles. List the people you regularly have to influence and what combination of styles is likely to be most effective with them.